Originally published in Fitness Rx For Women
One of the most typical diet questions that I’m asked while standing aside the buffet table at a party is “what do you think about having a cheat day?” You’ve probably asked yourself, or a health professional, the same question. Here’s my answer (a little more detailed than you’d get at the party).
News flash: It's different for women and men
The idea of the “cheat day” came out of the world of bodybuilding. While notorious for their ability to follow a very restricted diet before competitions, male bodybuilders found by observation that on the day after their competition they looked much better than while they were on stage for the event. Not surprisingly, while they were eating only tuna and chicken breast in order to get cut before competition, immediately after the competition the nearest ice cream parlor was packed with competitors. After the late afternoon indulgence they’d awake the next morning to an incredibly buff body, showing more cuts and definition than the day before. It didn’t take long for the “cheat day” to be incorporated into the standard dieting regime of male bodybuilders.
But what about female bodybuilders? By self-report, the women that I work with find that adding in a cheat day every once in awhile is fine. However, different from their male counterparts, who seem to be able to return to their diet regimen with great control, the weekly cheat day leads to less restraint during the rest of the week.
Pamela Peeke, MD, MPH, confirms this idea in her book, Body-for-Life for Women (Rodale, 2005). According to Dr. Peeke, women are more likely to binge during a cheat day. She recommends incorporating balance into your every day diet, promoting healthy relationships with food, leading to successful weight loss.
What does the research say?
Until recently the whole concept of a cheat day was based on theory and anecdote. There isn’t any good data on what happens physiologically or metabolically when people include a cheat day regularly in their weight loss plan. Now, however, there is data on what happens behaviorally, and the outcome of that behavior. In 2005, a study was published by researchers at The Center for Human Nutrition at the University of Colorado, examining the common characteristics of successful long-term weight loss maintainers on the National Weight Control Registry (NWCR). The NWCR consists of over 4800 individuals who have been successful in long-term weight loss maintenance. Although the NWCR does not represent a random sample of all dieters, it does have value in identifying potential strategies that may help others become successful in keeping weight off.
Among the many topics examined, dieting consistency was significant. Participants were asked whether they maintained the same diet regimen across the week and year, or if they tended to diet more strictly on weekdays and/or non-holidays. Few people said they dieted more strictly on the weekend compared with the rest of the week (2%), or during holidays compared with the rest of the year (3%). Fifty-nine percent reported that their eating was the same regardless of the day of the week, and 45% reported that it was the same on holidays, vacations, and the rest of the year. A minority of 39% reported stricter eating patterns during the week compared to weekends, and 52% were less controlled on holidays and vacations compared to the rest of the year.
When the investigators evaluated whether maintaining a consistent diet was related to subsequent weight regain after 2 years they found very interesting, and useful results. The results reported that those participants who maintained a consistent diet across the week were 1.5 times more likely to maintain their weight within 5 pounds over the subsequent year than participants who allowed themselves a “cheat day” during the week. The same was true for those individuals who allowed themselves more flexibility during holidays and traveling. Both groups that had “free time” outside their diet plans had a greater risk of regaining their lost weight. (1)
Think positive: balance, don’t cheat
The whole concept of cheating exemplifies the negative approach that we have toward food. When we cheat, whether planned or not, it implies guilt for a bad deed done. We live through a week of deprivation where our favorite foods are off limits, so all we do is crave them while working hard at avoiding them. Then comes our cheat day, and rather than eating a normal serving size of the chocolate cake, we binge and eat half the cake. Then the guilt sets in and there goes the other half of the cake. What a waste of time and emotion!
Get rid of the idea of cheating. Build in a positive approach to food and dieting by daily balancing your food with your exercise, and your favorite foods with all the foods that you eat to maintain your health. When foods are not off limits, when you don’t feel deprived, and when you know you’ll be able to have that small piece of cake several times a week, then you don’t binge, and you feel satisfied. This positive approach eliminates the whole concept of the “cheat day” because you’re building in the “cheat” at least several times a week, if not daily.
While this approach may make you nervous at first, it follows beautifully with the results of the Colorado study. Rather than changing your diet plan from weekday to weekend, a strategy that led to weight gain in the majority of NWCR members, you will be following your plan all week long. I like to call this balance, rather than planned cheating. And while it might take you a little time to become comfortable with the idea, once you try it you’ll never want to go back to that negative approach to food. You’ll be losing the weight off your shoulders, as well as your hips and thighs.
Creating balance
The easiest way to structure the balance in your diet is to start with the big picture: what are your favorite foods that you think you should avoid, and which days are your most active days? By plugging in sweet treats after exercise, you put the sugar to work for you. Not only should you not feel guilty about eating it, your body needs to have sugar after exercise. You can feel good about eating it and rewarding yourself for a hard, sweaty workout. Whatever that sweet treat is, make sure to include a source of milk protein at the same time, to get the biggest bang for your buck. Is your calling a sweet blended milk-based drink at your neighborhood latté stand or smoothie bar? Or maybe a cookie and a glass of milk? What about a latté and a bagel? All of these contain the right ingredients to help your muscles recover, build and refuel after exercise. Of course, keeping your serving sizes small will help contain your calories, but it will seem like plenty when you’ve never before even allowed yourself to eat anything after exercise!
Is your weakest moment in the evening? Are you dying for chocolate? Then plan to have a hot cocoa to help you relax and get you over the hump. The high tryptophan levels in milk combined with the few grams of carbohydrate will raise your serotonin levels and help your mind and body get ready for sleep. Non-dutched, natural cocoa powder, or bittersweet chocolate containing at least 70% cacao will do the same. So it’s something good for you to plan into your days.
What about the unplanned splurge?
There will always be very special moments in life when we do something, or eat something, just because we feel like it at the moment. I say, “celebrate those moments, don’t disparage them.” Don’t ruin your wedding because the cake isn’t in your plan for the day. Don’t avoid the champagne toast on your birthday. And definitely don’t forego sharing food during a special moment with a loved one. Food plays a very intimate role in our lives, and restricting food during tender moments, happy occasions and celebrations can make you feel left out. I’m talking about really special occasions, when it doesn’t matter if you’ve gone off the plan because these days happen very infrequently. So it’s not every holiday, or day off from work, but the very special ones.
When the day is done, look back on it with fondness. I hope the food and the moment were as good as you had hoped. Then tomorrow, go back to your plan. Cheating included; no guilt allowed!
References:
1. Wing RR, Phelan S. Long term weight loss maintenance. Am J Clin Nutr 2005;82(suppl):222S–5S